When we get a little shy puppy...we bring it inside...put it with an
outgoing puppy. The little shy pup will start following us around
because the other pup does...jump into our lap, whatever!
Find someone successful, hang on to them...follow them...
hear every word they say...it works!

Change or Blame!

Change: If your in a situation you don't like...change it! If your want a
better life or lifestyle, change is the secret word that will make the
difference. To make a change...you need wisdom. We don't have money
problems, we have wisdom problems! Wisdom will lead you to knowledge
and knowledge gives you the energy and direction you need for change.

Blaming yourself does not fix anything. In fact, blame only drains you of
your energies to make a change.

Blaming others will not change them...again don't use blame for a crutch
to make excuses for your situation.

If you choose the word blame,
forget the word change. If you determine to
change...blame just kinda disappears!

While your driving down the road, do you spend more time looking
through the large windshield
or do you spend all your driving time looking
through
the small rear view mirror? It's your choice!

The only way some of us will ever buy a new chevy truck is...
We run into the back of one because we were looking
in the rear view mirror!

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A Victim Of Circumstance

Most of us as youngsters had a dream of what we wanted out of life.
The fact is, most face setbacks by the time we are 30 years old. By the
time we are 30...Most of us have went through a divorce, lost a close
relative by death or filed bankruptcy.

How many of us just
carry on?  We face a setback...then another...then
another and so on.
We carry on as survivors!

When you get on a dirt road and get lost...carrying on is going from
one dirt road
to another dirt road then to another dirt road. We get lost
in circumstances.

Carrying on is for those individuals that are content living in situations
they really don't like.
To tolerate a life or a lifestyle. I am not talking
about baling out of every situation just because it don't feel good.

Baling out when the going gets tough can become a problem itself! For
some of us, baling out is a part of our caring on and that must stop.

"Starting Over...In Business"

You may be in a business...you have worked hard to build that
business...you are right on the edge of total success...quitting and
starting another business could be foolish.
Having the wisdom to hang
in there
or get out is what we need. Starting over: If you start a
successful business, just remember, someone down the street
will start a business like yours to steel your business, out of greed.
Sometime, the market will just simply disappear. The television repair
business is almost a thing of the past. Most the time, you can buy a
new television cheaper than you can repair one... In insurance, new
laws are passed that takes the money out of the agents pocket and
puts it in the companies pocket or maybe even the lawmakers pockets!
We are living in changing times and everything has it's season!

Hang in there if there is a market for your product...do extensive
research
for another business if you feel you must start over!

"Starting Over...Relationships"

When a relationship is built on physical attraction...physical attraction
changes as we grow older. All of us like pretty things, a car...a
home...a companion... All of us are attracted to beauty. Can we look
beyond physical beauty and see the big picture? Even Mr. Universe or
Miss America will one day loose their beauty. Bailing out of a
relationship is not always the right thing to do. In most relationships it
involves others. Do look at the total picture! If your problem in a
relationship is physical beauty...you bail out because of another
physical beauty...these things almost never work out and
the end is
disastrous
.

Sometimes, we are left with no choice but to start over. Our spouse
dies or we are in a situation of abuse and we have to get out... When
you start over, remember you are dealing with a
different
relationship
...a different person...different circumstance...do not carry
your bad, past experiences over into this relationship.
He or she did
not do it to you
... If you loose a spouse by death...do not go looking for
someone to replace them.
It's not fare to the one you lost or the one in
the new relationship
... We are all individuals and none of us are the
same
.

Accept change...
change could cause the excitement you
need to get over the past and starting over. Do not be
afraid of change and starting over!

Why does this new person like me? Build that new relationship on
what put you together to begin with. If being a fun loving person
brought the two of you together...that's the fun
that will keep the
relationship together
!

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